It's just a fact of life you learn when you are a woman, that certain clothes were never meant to have a functional purpose.
When you were little, it was probably the tights your mother insisted you wear to Sunday School at church every week.
As you got older, you realized that while high-heels make for a more visually-appealing look, several hours in them at the expense of foot-circulation is a high price indeed.
I bought a printed sundress recently and loved the fit of it in the dressing room. Strapless, structured without being formal, interesting print, fitted from the top to the waist, then allowing for more movement and give from the waist down to where it hit right above the knees.
I put the dress in my closet where I left it to wait for warmer summer temperatures.
The other night I was at dinner with my parents, my mom's sisters and their families. My cousin KH and I were at one end of the table eating guacamole and talking about how irresponsible we feel for shopping when we have clothes with tags still on them, just sitting in our closet.
Then MK and I were emailing and she said that she needs a new hobby "other than, you know, spending money." And, again, I found myself agreeing.
So as I was getting ready for work yesterday morning I resolved to take a fresh look at my clothes and wear one of my recent purchases from the past few months.
I spotted the strapless dress and threw it on for work with a black cardigan and gray flats, then congratulated myself on a cute, work-appropriate outfit.
I wasn't paying attention to the binding nature of the top of the dress while driving, but after sitting at my desk and work, I became acutely aware of the boning in the top of the dress.
You see, this dress was not meant for the practical, everyday occurence of sitting down.
It's meant for a bridal shower, a night out with friends on a patio perhaps, or window shopping in a beachy locale. The boning makes you stand up straight and I would imagine it looks good with heels, therefore gives you a more flattering overall look.
It was not, however, intended for someone to wear while working on spreadsheets, sitting at a desk for 7-8 hours a day.
Hencefore I'll prefer my daytime, non-event dresses to be boneless.
The dress must not hang on the body but follow its lines. It must accompany its wearer and when a woman smiles the dress must smile with her.